Most of us never really learned much about how to apologize. We all know how to say “I’m sorry” of course. But beyond that, we don’t know what to do or say to seek forgiveness. When you wronged your mate and want to get your ex back, just saying I’m sorry won’t cut it.
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Fortunately, there are deeper levels of apologies that we never learned in school. When you have lost your relationship and your love because you did something wrong to them, you will need to make a Power Apology.
A power apology can get your ex from anger to forgiveness sometimes in minutes when done correctly. Here are some of the important steps involved in making an apology that can get your ex back:
The first step in a Power Apology is to own up to what you did wrong. Don’t offer a bunch of stories or try to blame your ex “you were cold to me and I was drunk!” Fessing up to what you did wrong is powerful, it lets you mate know that you understand the core problem.
The second thing is to mirror their hurt feelings. You say something like “Hon, I know I made you feel betrayed and unloved and very say by cheating on you…” This is a very powerful form of emotional intelligence. When you mirror their hurt feelings, they will feel like you really do understand the impact of your actions.
Now you are ready for the third step, which is to let them get things off their chest. Let them vent. You don’t want to argue or explain yourself, you just let them talk about how what you did made them feel. The more they vent, the better.
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Now you are making a powerful apology! You are being an adult, taking responsibility for what you did, mirroring their feelings, and letting them vent. This is crucial to helping your ex release and let go of their negative feelings, which they have to do before they can truly forgive you.
Finally you can now actually say I’m sorry and apologize. Now it will likely get accepted by your ex.
Part 2 of this article discusses the steps to take after you’ve apologized, and it can be seen here at Get Ex Back Part 2.
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