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Advice on How to Attract the Specifics of a Love Relationship in a Free Video

Saturday, September 12th, 2009

Free Video Reveals #1 Love Secret

Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Best Selling Author , writes… …

Nora from the UK is curious: “I want a certain person to fall in love with me. Can I cause him to fall in love with me”? Advice about relationships can be varied. The Law of Attraction, however, is based on a universal law. You can get a head start with free video I offer on relationship advice and the law of attraction.

You know Nora, I can see why you’d want a specific person because what you see in that specific person gives you a lot of pleasure. You love the qualities they have. You love what you see in their heart. Maybe you think they embody all the qualities you want in a mate. Let me ask you this question, “If you could have everything you want in this particular one and more, would it matter if it’s that particular person”? It’s possible that some qualities in this one may be lacking or missing from your true ideal partner. Sure it’s possible.

Having said that, what about your tailor made, utterly delightful and delicious love of your dreams? I couldn’t be more serious. I wish I could express to you how utterly surprised, delighted and overjoyed at all that I got in the love of MY dreams. The Universe actually fulfilled on desires I had sort of given up on. I won’t go into details here, but you can get all the details if you read my book “Create the Love of Your Dreams.” Lots of people ask me how they can get the Ex- back. I say “why bother when you can have someone who adores you and whom you adore back?”

When we working on making the list, you’ll see whether there is any resistance in what you’re asking for, and then you’ll get the clarity and tools to move the resistance out of your way. Don’t be stingy with yourself. The Universe has the capability of giving you everything your heart desires. It’s always important to tag on to the list “This or something better.” You see, we have rather limited imaginations at times and the Universe will knock itself out trying to satisfy our every desire. If we only ask!

You can learn more secrets to relationship attraction in my FREE VIDEO from the new DVD, “7 Secrets to Find and Keep the Love of Your Dreams.” Just go to http://www.loveofyourdreams.com

Law of Attraction Advice and Love Questions Answered

Sunday, September 6th, 2009

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Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Relationship Specialist , writes… …

Beau from Australia asked me for advice on how he can really KNOW if she is on her way?

Beau, thanks for your question. You’re not alone. I get that question asked a lot. Any time it comes to matters of the heart, we can feel vulnerable. So asking for advice on love is the first place to start.

Applying advice on love and the Law of Attraction doesn’t have to be difficult, but there are some ideas you need to understand that will help you gain stability in attracting your love.

Your question demonstrates low levels of belief or expectancy. But don’t worry, that was also my problem before I broke through my relationship barriers. When I got clear of these low expectation barriers, however, my love showed up amazingly quickly.

Have you ever planted anything from seed? Eventually, you’ll get a plant if you follow the simple directions. You give the seeds what they need, water, sunlight, etc. and in due course a seedling appears. You wouldn’t dream of going out into the garden every other hour scratching at the ground wondering if you did it right, if the plant will sprout, or if someone removed the seed. That’s what we do when we question that the Law of Attraction love advice will deliver what we want.

It’s your work to get the static off the line. To get your vibration in alignment to actually allowing or receiving the love of your dreams. To really know, not just speculate that it may, hopefully happen, some day.

The distance between speculation and experiential knowing is just a matter of practicing new thoughts.

The trouble with most of these habits of speculation, hoping, etc. is that they’ve been taught to us and have gone unquestioned. Rarely looked at to see what fits, what needs to be updated, and what needs to be thrown out entirely.

You can learn much more about how to strengthen your Expectations and Belief AND Seven more Secrets to Finding the Love of Your Dreams, when you get my FREE DVD called “7 Secrets to Finding the Love of Your Dreams” — Just go to www.loveofyourdreams.com

Love and the Law of Attraction

Friday, September 4th, 2009

Free Video Reveals #1 Love Secret

Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Expert , writes… …

Beau from Australia asked me for advice on how he can really KNOW if she is on her way?

Beau, thanks for your question. You’re not alone. I get that question asked a lot. Any time it comes to matters of the heart, we can feel vulnerable. So asking for advice on love is the first place to start.

Applying the advice I give on love and the Law of Attraction doesn’t have to be difficult, but there are some ideas you need to understand that will help you gain stability in attracting your love.

Your question demonstrates low levels of belief or expectancy. But don’t worry, that was also my problem before I broke through my relationship barriers. Once I got really clear of what what in my way, by way of low expectation and limiting beliefs, my beloved showed up really fast.

Have you ever planted anything from seed? Eventually, you’ll get a plant if you follow the simple directions. When you plant your seeds you water them when needed, plant them where they’ll get ample sunlight and in time, a plant sprouts. You wouldn’t dream of going out into the garden every other hour scratching at the ground wondering if you did it right, if the plant will sprout, or if someone removed the seed. That’s the energetic equivalent of doubting that the Law of Attraction love advice will deliver what we want.

It’s your job to emit a clear unimpeded signal. To get your vibration in alignment to actually allowing or receiving the love of your dreams. To really feel it in your bones, not just speculate that it may, hopefully happen, some day.

The distance between speculation and experiential knowing is just a matter of practicing new thoughts.

The trouble with most of these habits of speculation, hoping, etc. is that most of them have just been handed down from generation to generation and rarely questioned. Rarely looked at to see what fits, what needs to be updated, and what needs to be recycled completely.

You can learn much more about how to strengthen your Expectations and Belief AND Seven more Secrets to Finding the Love of Your Dreams, when you get my FREE DVD called “7 Secrets to Finding the Love of Your Dreams” — Just go to www.loveofyourdreams.com

Trouble Finding Love? How Can I Find Perfect Love?

Tuesday, September 1st, 2009

Free Relationship Video

Nanette Geiger, Relationship Best Selling Author , writes… …

Fran from Idaho wants to know “How do I find my ideal partner?”

Well Fran, great question about how to find love.. To find your ideal love you need to first get clear about your desire. By asking yourself the question and writing it down, you’ll start the important first step.

Many people just figure that they’ll wait and see who shows up and decide from there. But that conveys a weak desire That conveys a weak desire and sends the universe crossed signals. I’ve always found that a good relationship coach helps a great deal.

I suggest that you dig deep into your heart of hearts. You can keep your personal work private. But you do want to make a detailed list. In the meantime, check in and notice what’s going on emotionally for you. Are you feeling hopeful or doubtful? This is an energy diagnostic that will tell you how strong your attraction signal is. If you’re doubtful, then simply work on what it will feel like when…..

  • When you’re fulfilled in the love of your dream
  • When have your best friend as your beloved
  • When your family meets him for the first time and everyone gets on splendidly

Find what it will feel like, AS IF, it’s already happened.

Another important question is, “Are you resisting your desire”? Most of the time, because of our conditioning to sell ourselves short play it safe and other limiting beliefs, we don’t move forward in our relationship quest with much determination. That is, we have doubts, fears and poor self-image that hangs us up in allowing our desires to be fulfilled.

Remember, the Universe likes clarity, so get clear on what you wanlove,relationship,find love,relationship advice,love advice,law of attractiont. You’ll start to attract love with my free relationship video. And add some passion or emotion to your desire and imagine what it feels like to already have your desire fulfilled. When you get my FREE Video, you’ll learn so much more about Relationship Attraction revealing the #1 Secret to Finding the Love of Your Dreams — Just go to www.loveofyourdreams.com

How To Find My Ideal Mate

Tuesday, September 1st, 2009

Free Relationship Video

Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Relationship Best Selling Author , writes… …

Fran from Idaho asked the question “How do I find my ideal partner?”

You’ve come to the right place for relationship advice. Before you can attract what you want in your ideal relationship, you need to be absolutely sure what you want and what you won’t accept. What do you want?

If you’re not sure, if you’re afraid to state what it is you really want, then you’re transmitting either mixed or very weak, diluted signals to the Universe. That conveys a weak desire and sends the universe crossed signals. I’ve always found that a good law of attraction coach helps a great deal.

I suggest that you dig deep into your heart of hearts. You don’t have to share your deeply held desires to anyone else. It is important, however, that you get clear and state what you want in detail. As you’re writing your list, pay attention to the way you feel. Are you feeling hopeful or doubtful? This is an emotional tool to help you know how strong your attraction signal is. If you’re doubtful, then simply work on what it will feel like when…..

  • When you have the love of your dreams in your life
  • When have your best friend as your beloved
  • When your family meets him for the first time and everyone gets on splendidly

Find what it will feel like, AS IF, it’s already happened.

Another important question is, “Are you resisting your desire”? Most of the time, because of our conditioning to think small, play it safe and other limiting beliefs, we don’t move forward in our relationship quest with much follow-through. That is, we have the energy of low expectancy that hangs us up in allowing our desires to be fulfilled.

Remember, the Universe likes clarity, so get clear on what you wanlove,relationship,find love,relationship advice,love advice,law of attractiont. You’ll start to attract love with my free relationship video. You’ll speed up the attraction process when you add passion of feeling what it’s like to already having what you want. When you get my FREE Video, you’ll learn so much more about Relationship Attraction revealing the #1 Secret to Finding the Love of Your Dreams — Just go to www.loveofyourdreams.com

Relationship Help Through Better Arguing

Sunday, June 14th, 2009

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Arguments are going to happen from time to time between two independent adults.   A lot of us think our relationships are bad if we argue, but that is not necessarily true. You can get Relationship Advice on this here.

Arguing in an unhealthy way, however, can be a BIG problem.  Even just a few arguments that are unhealthy can cause serious damage to your relationship.

Arguments that are unhealthy happen in many different ways.  One unhealthy way to argue is by either attacking or withdrawing.  Attacking, trying to dominate your mate by yelling or deriding them, is obviously bad.  So too is withdrawing into silence and not talking to your partner for hours or days.

Another big cause of damage in your relationship is if during an argument you say things that are very hurtful to your mate, like you’re a complete stupid idiot or a worthless wench.   Studies have shown that if one or both partners treat each other with scorn or contempt during an argument, that relationship gets severely damaged.  If you treat your mate with scorn or get treated with scorn you should learn how to deal with conflict in a healthier way.

Here are some healthy ways to argue.  First, try to breathe through your anger or fear.  Focusing on your breathing can help you to stay calm and present.  This can take a while to learn, but it helps.  You can get more How To Get Relationship Advice here.

It can take a good while to learn to do, but the next thing is to focus on de-escalation.  This means to lower the volume and temperature of the arguing.  See if you can get your mate to calm down by talking more softly yourself.  Act in a non-threatening way and give them some space.

Another key skill for good arguing is to ask your lover what’s important to them about the thing you’re arguing over.  Then shut up and LISTEN.  You don’t have to agree, but just listening will make room for you to share your views and then you can often get to a compromise.

Lastly, a great move is to reconnect with your lover fast after the argument is over.  Don’t let the resentment and silence linger or build up.  Say “I’m sorry we disagreed, are you all right?”  Break the ice!  There is much more to learn about good conflict, but this is a good start.  You can get a complete system about How To Get Relationship Advice here.

Relationship Advice On Dealing With Infidelity

Wednesday, June 3rd, 2009

Infidelity happens in a lot of relationships.  When it happens, what can you do?  Do you need to get a divorce or kick your mate out?  Good Marriage Help really can help you in this situation.

You get to choose.  Stay or leave.  Now, whatever one you choose, there are two things you will have to deal with.

One is how to cheat proof your relationship.  It will not do you a lot of good to move on to another relationship if you just run into the same problem.  So you need to look at how this problem happened, and if there is anything you need to help not create it again in the future.  A course that can help with {How To Get Relationship Advice} is available.

Now, it isn’t necessarily your fault that your mate cheated.  Some people will do that with no provocation, entirely on their own.  But if that is what happened, you need to pick your next partner more carefully.

When infidelity occurs, sometimes both of you have some cause in the matter.  Did you stop being as loving?  Did things between you get too mechanical?  Did you grow apart and distant?  Did you turn into roommates not lovers?

Pay attention to intimacy factors.  Don’t let touch and connection fade between you.  Fight the tendency to become more like roommates over time.  Don’t let the burdens of adulthood and family keep you from enjoying each other.  Have small talk each day to stay connected rather than grow distant.

You can help cheat proof your marriage if you make it a point to keep the play going between you.  You got into the relationship in the first place to play together.  Then over time it can disappear.  Just having a date night once a week can help keep the play from disappearing from your love life - and keep your partner faithful.

The good news is that you can repair your relationship after infidelity.  And you can learn to prevent it from happening again in your life.  But you must pay attention to what caused it and see if you can avoid that in the future.  Here’s where you can get How To Have Loving Marriage Help that makes a difference.

Get Ex Back By Asking Wisely

Monday, June 1st, 2009

Your ex has left you.  You want them back.  You have called them and apologized for whatever you did wrong that caused them to leave.  Now, how do you ask them to take you back? You can learn more about resolving relationship conflict here.

The first thing to understand is that each situation is unique.  There is no one rule fits all.  You may be able to get back together in minutes or it may take days. 

What if you were too controlling or jealous.  You’ve apologized.  They seem like they are open to you once more.  What now?  If you push too hard, they will feel like you haven’t changed much, won’t they?

So you ask for a second chance.  You say something natural.  “Will you give me a second chance?”  That is simple and normal.  Where the skill comes in is realizing the ball is in their court now.  Let them have the ball and take the time they need to consider your request.

Every ex and every situation is different.  Asking someone to take you back whom you hurt badly enough to make them leave you is a big deal.  Can you understand that?  This is not some small thing.  You have created strong negative feelings in your ex.  This is why they left you.  Asking them to take you back may seem like a small or obvious or necessary thing to you, but put yourself in their shoes.  (Go here for a complete course on How To Get Love Help)

Your ex doesn’t want to make a mistake here.  They don’t want to take you back and then have you hurt them again.

So let them have control.  Ask them to take you back, and see what happens.  Don’t try to push the issue.  If they want to think about it, ask them if you can call them in a day or two.  If they seem more open to you, you can ask if you can come over and talk about it tonight.

Your job is to make a sincere apology and then ask them to take you back.  That’s your part.  Then give them control, feel them out, let them be in charge of when and how to take you back.  You can get a complete system for resolving relationship conflict here.

Making Up Without Waiting Too Long

Saturday, May 30th, 2009

A lot of books on how to get your ex back basically say the same thing.  Wait 30 days or more and have no contact.  Then contact them again and see if they want to get together.  The hope is that after 30 days they will have gotten over their upset and lost their anger towards you.  You can get more getting back together info here.

This advice is based on the idea that time heals all wounds.  That after a month or so they won’t be so mad and may even feel like forgiving you some.

This method of getting back with your ex has some value in some specific situations.  But, for the most part, it can create a lot of problems.  The anger your ex may feel can simmer and fester for all those weeks.  Their heart can harden towards you in that time.  Also, they may start dating someone else.  When there is someone else in the picture, their heart strings start to attach to the new person, making it extremely difficult to get them back.

To avoid these problems you will need a different approach.  Your specific approach will vary based on the reason you split up, but there are some general methods you can use to fix your relationship in hours not months.  Go here for a complete system on How To Get Love Help.

Let’s say that you wronged your mate by cheating on them.  They kicked you out last week, saying they could never trust you again.  This is completely understandable.  They are mad, feel betrayed and hurt.  Of course they don’t want to be in a relationship with you. 

To get your ex back fast, realize that feelings do change.  Your ex will get over it eventually, even it it takes a year.

The second thing to understand is that you can help their feelings change.  This is the key to getting your ex back fast instead of waiting weeks.  You can help them to get over their negative feelings towards you.  There are a couple of ways of doing this.  One is with a certain kind of apology (yes, there are different kinds!) and another way is to let them vent or get the feelings off their chest.

When combined, these two methods can help your ex release their hurt feelings.  This makes room for forgiveness, which is the first step to taking your back.  So venting and apologizing in the right way can get your ex back in hours instead of weeks or months.  You can get a complete system for Get Your Ex Back In Hours here.