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Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Best Selling Author , writes… …

Many people carry over trust issues from past relationships, or even childhood events and traumas. The strong feelings from these past experiences can be a real player in our ability to attract and keep a lasting loving relationship. That was unfortunately true in my case, and I was not capable of freeing myself from previous emotional rackets until I got assistance from a Life Coach. The beginning step is to discover truly what recurrence you have in place that’s keeping you stuck and then expunge it from your mind.

Try writing in a journal and find answers to these questions:

What occurred in my relationship and what did I make that mean about me?

What is the dominant feeling that occurs concerning this incident?

What is the most recent occurrence I can remember when I experienced a similar incident, or felt the same way?

Notice how this conclusion or judgement you came to concerning the earliest case is a way of being that causes you to react to any similar situation.

When the problem is trust, it’s often from an earlier experience and there’s a deeply held feeling concerning your safety in a relationship or in general. The most likely case is that this recent relationship was not the first time you’ve had trusting issues. What you think and feel and what shows up in your life is continuously a vibrational match. Learning self-analysis with law of attraction transitional tools and techniques helps you understand what recurrences you sustain that operate as a fixed belief. There is no room for growth or expansion when you have a belief that is set in stone. You can break free from emotional barriers inhibiting a love relationship by getting help from a Life Coach for Relationships.

Beliefs are just thoughts that you, your culture, and everyone around you, continue repeating. Thoughts, thought upon for a continuous amount of time change into thought form. Thought forms transfer into actual life experience when you, or peers in your life, keep calling it up. You see it “out there” as evidence to justify your thoughts or beliefs. Eventually these thought forms turn into part of your physical reality.

Ultimately it is what you decide to do with the belief and the judgement that goes along with it, and the interpretation of what you think is good or bad concerning what you’re observing or thinking. The interpretation turns the thought into an emotion that feels good or feels bad. This feeling is what transmits to the Universe that then creates the essence of it and the emotional vibration is matched back in your life experience.

When you have created increased positive energy, begin to cultivate a positive mindset for what’s possible in a relationship. Let your imagination assist you. Spend time imagining yourself with a loving partner. You enjoy going for walks together. You are holding hands and he laughs at your silly jokes. Your brain is an amazing tool and your thoughts combined with heartfelt emotion turn your thoughts into magnets. If you’re suffering from a difficult divorce, find a Life Coach for Relationships after Divorce. If you’ll truly practice these techniques you will find you’ll not just trust again, but attract the most loving, trustworthy people into your life in all aspects.

Nanette Geiger, Relationship Specialist , writes… …

You’ve ended a non-functioning relationship that doesn’t fit you anymore. It was difficult to cease it, because it wasn’t terrible, but your heart wished to be completely fulfilled in love. Currently you see yourself being lonesome and have a difficult time shutting the door completely on that previous relationship. Does this sound like you?

You start to doubt yourself, wondering if your relationship was really as bad as you thought.

In order to let something new into our lives, we have to let go of what is already there. It isdifficult to keep a clean slate and create the one who completes your existence if you are emotionally keeping the area of the past. You don’t have to necessarily completely abandon the friendship. However, if you have found that you are keeping some unresolved issues from the past, then it’s time to clear that energy out. Completion is necessary. You can get the Relationship Advice you need today.

Completion is a practice of acquiring full responsibility for your emotional level, expressing everything you feel concerning your situation (without putting blame on anyone) with the intention of voicing everything that must be said as though you are emptying a container. When you have said it all, the container is clean and clear.

It also assists you to understand what you desire from the expunging conversation. That is, you want to be complete, you want to be free from your previous life so you can attract from a new vantage point.

If you find yourself holding on to hurt from the past, perhaps you think that he really should be held accountable for his actions. Best of luck attempting to break free from that. The longer your mind is on something you do not desire, the longer you’ll attract it to you.

Let the vibration you are letting in to be siphoned off from your power. It is a tiny leak in your energy level and after a while, it will deplete your positive energy, if it hasn’t already. Moreover, that eventual energy shortage prevents you from having all your power focused in this moment. When you don’t have your power in the moment it makes it harder to be a powerful, deliberate creator. Life Coaching and Relationship Advice can help you along the way.

Take all of your power back by releasing and letting go of your previous relationship, of judgements that weigh you down, clutter up your energy field and block you from accelerating the relationship and love you desire and deserve.

Nanette Geiger, Relationship Expert , writes… …

A typical problem for clients of mine is their belief that you have to lose 50 pounds or be financially independent prior to being able to attract lasting love. This is of course a myth. This is just low self-esteem blocking you from being truly whole.

It’s wonderful to desire to appear your best, be your perfect self, have high self-esteem and be ok about your money situation. It feels truly wonderful to feel stable, confident, and attractive.

There are a MASSIVE number of industries that prey on peoples’ poor sense of self-image. At some point or other, we have all succumbed to buying that hot new exercise machine that promises to make it simple for us to tone up, slim down and have a beautiful body. Supplements, special diets or dieting plans, products for our hair, skin, teeth, libido, you name it! And these messages are directly aimed at one simple premise – that we’re not inherently OK the way we already are.

We’re so used to this type of thought pattern that we hardly even realize [what is. It is not surprising that we subscribe to that pattern of thinking. After all, when we are born, at the beginning of our existence, we are loved and treated as perfection – at least most of the time. Then soon we are compared to how our older sibling did things, at what age they attained this ability, sitting up, crawling, language, and so on. Our hair, our bodies and how they are the same or different to this one or that. “Oh, she appears similar to Aunt Mary when she was that age.” You know the pattern.

Begin by examining your early beliefs and emotions concerning your body. Most people don’t even realize that they have stuck limiting vibrations or feelings from these previous experiences. Negative emotion, whether strong or subtle, does not feel good and many of us just teach ourselves to bury it, deal with it, or drive it further into the underbelly of your mind. These influential emotional experiences usually continue to be subjugated. We have all heard the phrase “emotional baggage.” We go through life with old unresolved, painful, intense feelings continuing to be held somewhere in us. Those emotions transmit to the Universe to reflect back more of the same. You can free yourself by improving your self-esteem.

Begin to change your connection with yourself by creating a list of what you like about you. What really harmonizes with yourself? What can you appreciate about your appearance? Think of 10 affirmations each day that you truly love about your body. Do you like your senses? Are you thankful for functioning fingers? Make lists of the positive aspects about you and view your energy and vibrational point of attraction start to soar. You CAN improve your self-esteem and attract love.

Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Expert , writes… …

Pat, a woman from Washington DC, deeply wants to share her life with a love life partner but is worried about being financially stable before attracting her ideal relationship.

I really empathize with you and you are not the only one feeling this way. That’s a very understandable emotion for men and women. However, if every outside factor needed to be perfect before we did anything in life, we’d be sunken in quicksand waist-deep for the remainder of our lives, wouldn’t we? Creation just does not function that way. That means your life experience does not need to be that way for you either.

Your finances, your body, your home, kids, mom, whatever thing or condition doesn’t have to be perfect before you can attract your ideal mate into your life. You want to know how I know that? Simple: the outside factors were not even near to perfection in my life prior to attracting the love of my life. If I can do it, you can as well. Find a Life Coach today!

Here’s what I’d like you to consider: we all have a lot of judgement about ourselves for our lives being less than perfect. Please consider going easy on yourself. Begin searching for factors that are functioning fully in your life. As I so passionately teach about the Law of Attraction, what you think about is very attractive and how you actually ‘feel’ about that is magnetic. A Law of Attraction Life Coach can help you break through emotional barriers.

Start by making a list of things you like about you concerning as many aspects of your life you can imagine. This is a fantastic vibration increaser. Writing these things down can assist you in having a reference to check back to when you need to remind yourself how amazing your life truly is. When your vibration is high you are in the attracting mode. When you’re feeling dragged down or vulnerable with your finances, you’re actually attracting more of that - insecurity and vulnerability. Lean to free yourself from these patterns of thought with a Law of Attraction Life Coach and attract Wealth and Love today!

Start empowering yourself by having better self-analysis. Notice when the internal dialogue about being ‘less than’ comes up and simply notice and choose to think a better feeling thought. These are some powerful ways to get the Law of Attraction working for you immediately.

Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Relationship Advisor , writes… …

“I do not want to be hurt again, but I truly want to reach my soul mate. How can I feel more confident about love”?

You have two options to pursue here. 1) You can stall until you’ve had enough time in between the hurt in your previous relationship or 2) begin moving on and releasing the past. Since you desire to find your soul mate, then I’d do the work in letting go. It’s faster and easier than you’d imagine. Receiving assistance from a certified relationship life coach can smooth the road.

Receiving guidance to do release work is a way of releasing and freeing yourself from your past. Consider emotional release and letting go as forgiveness. You are making energetic area for the fresh, new, healthy, and whole relationship to reside in.

I realize some of you are crying “Yeah but, I don’t think he really needs to be let off the hook for his behavior. It was wrong and that’s just that”! The energy it takes to keep a grudge takes up your space. You’re allowing your energy to be siphoned off from you. It’s a slow leak in your energy field and over time, it will deplete you, if it hasn’t already. What’s more, that little energy leak prevents you from having all of your power focused in the present moment. When you do not have your consciousness in the moment, do you imagine you are going to be the perfect creator that you truly are? It becomes that much more impairing. Take your full potential back by releasing and letting go of your past relationship, of judgements that burden you, muss up your energy level and prevent you from moving in the right direction to creating the life you were born to live. You can increase the speed of this process immensely by receiving help from a life coach.

I find that the topic of forgiving can be a loaded one. First off, I’m not talking about the type of forgiveness where we’re excusing someone else’s poor behavior. It’s important to have clear boundaries set for you. And to understand how you feel concerning who you want in your life and who you don’t, how you want to spend your time and with whom. It is essential to realize what works for you and what does not. Get Relationship Life Coaching and Advice for Women today!

Until you clear the area of pain, you will either create more pain or have a hard time being truly fulfilled with love. So first, expunge the old hurt, then release and let in new love.

Nanette Geiger, Relationship Specialist , writes… …

“I frequently seem to attract a partner who’s emotionally unavailable. What can I do to alter that”? This is a question that was asked by one of my clients. Interestingly, that was the strongest complaint I recurred from my lengthy string of relationship failures. They were either emotionally inept, lived out of town or was travelling all the time.

When you keep creating unavailable relationships, my question to you is, “Is something in you that has a fear of commitment, or afraid to be truly open in a love relationship”? That may be difficult to accept right now, but that is what I find to be the situation in most cases.

As a relationship life coach, I provide Relationship Life Coaching for Women. I also recommend that you get extremely clear about what you desire. Get clear by creating a list of the qualities you desire in your ideal mate.

You create the list for yourself so you can get clear about what it is you really want. You’ll begin to realize where any weaknesses are in yourself as you create the list. You will see where you should go to strengthen your level of creation or belief in the chance of attracting what you are desiring.

To bring out the state of feeling happy expectation, next ask yourself the question “Why do I want it”? It’s time to use your imagination. When you answer this question, think of all the wonderful activities you’ll do together. Think of smiling, holding hands, and introducing him to your girlfriends. Think of what it will be like to be with someone who is romantic and loves to bring you a bouquet.

You make the list for yourself, and the Universe responds to your clarity – the undiluted intention and unresisted desire!

Most of us have been trained as a child to accept whatever you receive, it is not kosher to ask for anything, why can you not just be happy with what you have? - kind of like brainwashing. I suggest you ask for it all and continue feeling yourself into the alignment of your affirmations.

Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Advisor , writes… …

If you’ve tried saying positive realizations, messing with vision boards and other utilities to help get you in the attraction mode and they have not been effective, there may be a couple reasons. Affirmations and Vision Boards are utilities you can facilitate when you want assistance in digging into that emotional place of what it’s like to have your wants manifested. If you’re practicing using the tools and not actually finding the feeling place, then you’re just performing a rote action and won’t likely get much success. If you’re realizing that feeling place and persistently not receiving results, then chances are you have got more resisting energy than you realize. I was at one point in the same situation. I did not know what was in my way. I needed to get life coaching that made all of the difference.

As for affirmations, remember the Universe matches your energy, your aligned intentions, instead of the words you project. So you can have thoughts and jabber all day long, and if you are transmitting envy when you view a person who has a content love relationship, you are projecting a feeling of lacking. And not a thing has to actually change around you in order for your perfect love to show up. You don’t have to move to a bigger house, or a better neighborhood, or a city that’s filled with singles or couples however way you see it. The only thing you need to do is start where you are and stop the resistance.

Picture a scale. You know, the the scales of justice. Picture it evenly balanced with no weights on either side. Now imagine that every time you put a positive intention over on the right side you put a weight on the attraction end and every time you have a doubtful thought, you put a weight on the resistance end. Where do you imagine you actually weigh in? The funny thing is, I thought I was a positive person. Oh boy, was I wrong. Not only did I have a lot of rackets about previous relationships, but I did not even know it. On the way it is helpful to have a Law of Attraction Life Coach who is skilled and objective who can listen to what’s going on in your life and help you surface up the limiting beliefs.

The truth is, if you only practiced unparalleled appreciative energy and did not stop feeling good, you’d be letting go of a lot of resistance regularly and any of your wants would be created very darn fast. Use Spiritual Life Coaching for New Relationship Courses to your advantage. So continue appreciating all that is working in your life!

Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Relationship Advisor , writes… …

Have you ever wondered if you are with the ‘right’ one? How would you truly know for sure? This is a question people ask me when a person’s relationship has many problems. The problem could simply be you’re experiencing many mixed signals, or it takes a lot of hard effort to have the relationshiop run well. Don’t get me wrong, a relationship does take work, but they do not need to be hard work. Communication is pretty easy. You should feel free to say what’s on your mind. When relationships become intense, and they will, you will have the courage and peace of mind to smoothe the situation over later on by accepting responsibility for your actions or words.

A functioning relationship shouldn’t seem like difficult work. Love and mutual respect are at the core of any relationship. Having said that, you shouldn’t underestimate the power of the Ego to mess things up. Not understanding where you’re at in your own level of maturity, it’s hard to say what is happening in your life. In any relationship, you have the opportunity to remake what you have. That is right. You can remake your current relationship. Any person committed to being in a fulfilling, loving relationship will need to remake it using relationship advice to keep it fresh and alive.

I am going to assist you in purging all of the muddled signals you’ve been taught about your emotions. You’re ready to attain the clearness of what your emotions are trying to communicate to you; and best of all – you’ll never again be in the dark about whether you are ATTRACTING a great love or RESISTING one. Bottom line is, you desire to realize how to get the Law of Attraction working for you.

The better question is are YOU allowing the Law of Attraction to work for what you TRULY desire? In other words, the Law of Attraction is continuously mirroring back to you your primary vibration. What you want to be aware of is, what is my dominant vibration on the matter of creating a perfect relationship? I answer these kinds of questions and many more pertaining to new relationship advice for women in my Law of Attraction Life Coaching and training programs.

Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Advisor , writes… …

Relationship Coaching for people with self-confidence or self-esteem issues is very valuable in answering this next question. Women seem to suffer mostly from self-esteem, sense of abandonment and worthiness problems. Life Coaching for Women is one solution to solve this issue in life coaching. Anita asks: “Are some of us just destined to be alone”? Anita, since you responded to the survey concerning relationships and the Law of Attraction, I’m going to assume you have been thinking about creating a relationship for yourself. Many people choose to keep out of intimate relationships. And that need not be the case for a person who’s given up because they have continuously failed in the past. Not a thing is wrong with wanting to be without a serious relationship. Life can be fulfilled and fantastic with any decision you make.

As long as you know you are deciding that rather than giving up out of frustration that you haven’t met the love of your dreams. You can acquire everything in a relationship and in your life.

If you could see yourself from the point of view of Source or your Inner Being, or Higher Self, you would be viewing a beautiful, fantastic, illuminated, connected being. Then life begins to happen around us. Our well-meaning parents, teachers, and elders, in an attempt to guide us, teach us from the beginning what to watch out for, stop us, caution us, and attempt to protect us, effectively having us listen to their fears and projections of insecurity rather than tuning in to our personal energy. OK, I will give you as brand new children we do need support. Fine. But soon following they understand to function by themselves, self-actualization needs to be part of the training for the little children.

Well-meaning adults want to do the best thing so they guide, hold back, admonish, and instil fear in young ones to make them behave. This only underscores a level of insecurity and inability. The sensation of not-enoughness gets instilled as a child.

Brain research now explains to us that until we are 7, we are so open and receptive, we have no filtering abilities at all. We go around in a kind of hypnagogic trance and become impressed with whatever happens to enter our life experience. It’s no wonder we have deeply ingrained, although misplaced, beliefs about an imperfect nature. By the time we’re 6 years old, we have heard the word “NO” about 60,000 times. Look out for that, that could hurt you, be careful, do not do that. The recurring message says you are unworthy, you cannot trust you, you do not know what you are doing, and so on.

Our parents and elders were certainly well-meaning. They simply intended for our well-being. But you can see how simply we have been trained away from our inherent greatness and brilliance.

I suggest that you go easy on yourself and give yourself a chance. First off, it is not your fault. It’s not even the fault of your elders. They were programmed the same way too. You can end this perpetration of lower self-esteem on yourself and those you care about. You deserve to have anything your heart wants.

Do your very best to lavish yourself appreciation and self-acceptance. Treat yourself as you would a beloved child. Forgive her for her shortcomings. The reality is, the Universe appreciates, Spirit admires you, and your Inner Being adores you. Why? Because you ARE adorable. And that IS the reality!